Public speaking is often listed as one of people's
biggest fears. If you need some help putting your wedding toast together check
out these top tips.
1. HAVE A GLASS OF WINE, BUT JUST ONE
Having a drink can
help calm your nerves, having more than one can move you into embarrassing
anecdote territory.
2. PRACTICE
If you're not used to public speaking, don't
try to wing it. Think about what you want to say, write it down and practice
it. If it will make you feel better, bring note cards, but don't write out the
whole speech.
3. STAY
POSITIVE, STAY CLEAN
This is not the time to tell
"funny" jokes about how hard marriage is, or to make allusions to the
couple's sex life. Remember, not everyone at the wedding is part of the
inner-circle, so try and avoid overly personal remarks. These remarks will work
better at a more intimate rehearsal dinner or bridal shower.
4. SO, WHAT
SHOULD YOU SAY?
If
you're the maid of honor, best man or other guest try this formula:
- Thank the hosts of the reception (the
parents of the bride and or groom)
- Short intro about how you know the
bride/groom or couple
- Why the bride/groom is a wonderful
person
- Why the bride and groom make such a
wonderful couple
- A nice wish or hope for their long
marriage
If
you're the bride try this formula:
- Even if your parents aren't paying for
the wedding, it would be nice to thank them for helping to make your dream
wedding possible
- Thank all your relatives and friends for
being part of this wonderful day
- Lastly, thank your groom's parents for
giving you this wonderful man
- Encourage everyone to dance and have
fun!
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