Modern bridesmaids are strong, savvy women ready to pitch in and do what
needs doing... if only someone would tell them what needs doing!
Every
bride is different and has different needs and expectations. Make sure to check
in with your bride often and find out what she wants or needs from you. Some
brides just want a fab bachelorette party; others need a hand to hold every
step of the way.
We've
put together a basic list of the sorts of things the maid of honor and
bridesmaids are often asked to do. The details are up to you and your bride.
BEFORE
THE WEDDING
- Help the bride
shop for her dress and accessories
- If you're
lucky, help her choose the bridesmaids' dresses
- Be a sounding
board for the bride
- Help the bride
with any DIY projects
- Plan and host
a bridal shower and a bachelorette party
THE
WEDDING DAY
- Help the bride
get dressed and ready
- Hold the
bride's dress while she pees (yes, we're serious)
- Collect and
carry an emergency kit for the bride
- Straighten the
bride's dress, train and veil before the ceremony
- Be cheerful,
upbeat and calm even if she stresses out
- Walk nicely
down the aisle
- Stand at the
altar without fidgeting
- Keep the drama
to a minimum
THE
RECEPTION
- Stand in the
receiving line, if asked
- Give a toast
or speech, if asked
- Help bustle
her train, or change outfits if necessary
There
you go, that doesn't seem so bad does it?
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